Life - O - Meter
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Thursday, June 19, 2014
Monday, April 28, 2014
What is an Arranged Marriage?
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This is what an Arranged Marriage is in a crux. Pun Intended...
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Thursday, March 27, 2014
Tuesday, March 11, 2014
Love and Beyond - The feeling of being married!
The beauty of every relationship is not just limited to being together, it is beyond! Everything said and understood about the horror of being married, its time to accept the fact that marriages are beautiful abstracts that hold love, bond, responsibilities, acknowledgements and much more. A beautiful string of events that is important at every point in time.
You agree? Read on if you think you and I share mutual feelings...
- Each morning is not just another morning - Married recently or it's been 50 years since you have been married, waking up next to the person you value the most is the most amazing feeling ever. That one morning kiss that says it all is enough to make the day. The day you wake up alone when he is out, it is an incomplete day for sure. Isn't it?
- The too good breakfast together - The point in time when there is emergency at home of getting ready and making breakfast, packing lunch and plating the breakfast and then he comes in between and holds you tight and that second of time when you and him are close enough that time stands still, nothing beyond can relax you! The super husband comes to your rescue then helping you doing little he can to make you feel complete!
- The Wait to be home - Do you feel that pain in the heart that pinches too hard to get up from the office seat and leave the damn office! It is how you want yourself to be home - your home and cook for the important people in your life. Office hours kill me, mutual feeling with you?
- Being back home all energetic - Feeling super woman inside who is independent and self sufficient goes home, works all day but then still magically has all powers to stand in kitchen and cook for a good amount of time. All this to see a smile on his face!
- Those moments after dinner - A good sleep with him is enough you can long and ask for!
Have moments to share? Let me know in the comment box! Love and Happiness...
XoXo!
Thursday, December 20, 2012
The Daily Up Down!
The story starts from the way you can't choose to
which parent you want to be born a child for and choose the school that promises to make
your career, the same way you can't choose the place where you get employed
for! It's the package and the designation. And then again, you just can't
choose the transport you will travel in! It’s again chosen by the time you
reach at home and how soon. The same way, Gurgaon chose me to give me the pain
of traveling all the way from Delhi to reach out to my work place and then get
back home. I chose the chartered bus that helps me in the daily up down.
The fixed timing of
the bus, the fear of not catching it on time, the fear of not getting the seat and the fear of missing it and traveling all the way in a hap hazard way… keeps me on my toes. Waking up
early is the toughest on the list! Wake up and the stop watch begins. The race
to reach the bus stop starts at the very fraction of the second when the eyes
see the clock and the heart says ‘Oh Shit! It’s 7”! And then the fear starts
when I have to reach out to my pretty bus at 5 in the evening.
It’s that tough? Yes it is, but it’s limited to the time I
don’t get into the bus. The moment I step in the bus, there’s a whole new world
opened to me. The moment I enter the bus, there are people sitting, the same
faces that I see every day, have had bid them morning sometime in my travelling
career or have talked to them. It’s another family altogether!
Today. Sitting at the window seat with my music on, I was
thinking on what life has given to me and Oh! Suddenly the mind said, stupid
you have got a lot from everything you did and every person you met. I came
back to the place I was sitting and realized, the bus I was traveling in had
given me so much in itself… the life must have given me a lot more. It’s about realizing.
The chartered bus has given me friends of all age groups.
There’s one who’s younger than me, there’s one who is elder to me, there’s one who
is a married surd man, there’s another aunty who is going to get retired in
2014! Interesting! I talk to them every day on social issues, on fun, on
eating, on everything. The minor point that I ignore is I am between the people
of different mind sets, different upbringing with different work profiles!
It’s good to talk to people. Everyone is happy, everyone is content,
everyone is busy - the baseline? The problems…. There is no man I have ever met
who has no tensions at all, except me! I have to be forced to think about is my
weight and keeping away from junk food, that’s it. :D But it’s about how these
people react to their problems. The younger is spontaneous in her reactions,
the older are calm. All this happens with age and with time and with
experience. The more tensions you have in your life, the mature you are. It’s all
about understanding things. I feel blessed to have some very nice people around
with whom I share some special few hours. :)
Friday, April 22, 2011
Some Fights really don't matter!!!
There had been a time when I was what I was. I never felt or thought anything, did what I liked. People used to say what they wanted but Never thought those things were as much important that I should sit and cry abut it like other people do. I was Happy then! I loved myself. Had no expectations from anybody. What Did I get in Return? Was called immature and a child.
Now I inculcated what people say a matured should have, a sense to make people show that what they do effects me. This has turned me into a big time sadhuuu!!!!
There was a time, When some fights did matter to me. But times have changed! Nothing matters to me for I dnt make people effect me now. I take them as time comes and goes, They will also go! No point in thinking about them, the so called friends who show a lot of care and then with obvious reasons change. It human nature I guess. I too changed. I am no more what I was. I have started expecting. Is this what we call being mature??? If this is so, I would like to tell all my friends that please plzzz plzzzzz be a child at heart and at mind. Let others say what all they say. Don't make friends by heart but make thm by the situation. Be mean and just think about yourselves. QUIT being a Woman and a Man. Pleaseee.... I f you stick all the expectations and keep expecting things then also you won't be happy anyways. So instead love yourself and enjoy your life happily! :)
I have decided to bring back my inner child out and be the same the person what I was. I grew into a matured person but putting a reverse gear and being a child again, where I was happy in my own cacoon and never wanted to come out. GO get into your caoons too.... :)
Now I inculcated what people say a matured should have, a sense to make people show that what they do effects me. This has turned me into a big time sadhuuu!!!!
There was a time, When some fights did matter to me. But times have changed! Nothing matters to me for I dnt make people effect me now. I take them as time comes and goes, They will also go! No point in thinking about them, the so called friends who show a lot of care and then with obvious reasons change. It human nature I guess. I too changed. I am no more what I was. I have started expecting. Is this what we call being mature??? If this is so, I would like to tell all my friends that please plzzz plzzzzz be a child at heart and at mind. Let others say what all they say. Don't make friends by heart but make thm by the situation. Be mean and just think about yourselves. QUIT being a Woman and a Man. Pleaseee.... I f you stick all the expectations and keep expecting things then also you won't be happy anyways. So instead love yourself and enjoy your life happily! :)
I have decided to bring back my inner child out and be the same the person what I was. I grew into a matured person but putting a reverse gear and being a child again, where I was happy in my own cacoon and never wanted to come out. GO get into your caoons too.... :)
Saturday, December 19, 2009
The Lost Faith
WITH THE passage of time and the advancement of the generation, there has emerged a wide gap between thoughts and the application of thoughts. The way to live, the way to look at things and moreover the faith people repose in each other has now become mere words or phrases that we find in a dictionary . While turning the pages of history, we notice a lot of differences in people - the people who lived then and the people who live now. The word ‘faith’ has lost its relevance.
As Indian culture evolved over a period of time, the only thing which had held the whole country together was 'faith'. There were times when people used to periodically check if their counterparts stood by faith . There was once a generation which placed full faith in the elders and teachers. There was a time when people like “Ekalavya” offered their thumb to the teacher by way of 'Gurudakshina' (the fee paid to the teacher by the student).
But things have changed now. The real relationship between a student and the teacher is just a face-to-face relationship. As soon as the teacher is out of the classroom there are comments made on the teacher. The way he/she dresses or teaches is commented upon. There are nicknames ready all the time for the teachers. Moreover, teachers are humiliated in front of the students. For this reason, teachers think they have to teach commensurate with the money they are paid for teaching. They go home and take rest and repeat the exercise the next day. Trust or faith does not obtain between the teacher and the taught, these days. Students think they are more intelligent because they get all the information from the internet. The information relates not only to their syllabic requirements but also to advanced technologies. This prompts the students to assume that their teachers are fools and that they are more intelligent than their teachers.
But mythology tells us that teacher is the real 'Guru'. Faith is as important as gravity is to the planet. If faith is absent, aberration arises and leads to evil thoughts and behaviour . Faith is the in thing . It bonds people. Teacher is no more a statuete you pay respect to but one who is given nicknames or laughed at. The youth believe they’re smart enough to play their own games. But then teachers are no longer into serious teaching. They have turned sellers who sell knowledge. There is not even a trace of faith between the teacher and the taught. Students don’t respect the teacher and in turn the teacher is not into his job seriously. This is the reality; this is the truth.
As Indian culture evolved over a period of time, the only thing which had held the whole country together was 'faith'. There were times when people used to periodically check if their counterparts stood by faith . There was once a generation which placed full faith in the elders and teachers. There was a time when people like “Ekalavya” offered their thumb to the teacher by way of 'Gurudakshina' (the fee paid to the teacher by the student).
But things have changed now. The real relationship between a student and the teacher is just a face-to-face relationship. As soon as the teacher is out of the classroom there are comments made on the teacher. The way he/she dresses or teaches is commented upon. There are nicknames ready all the time for the teachers. Moreover, teachers are humiliated in front of the students. For this reason, teachers think they have to teach commensurate with the money they are paid for teaching. They go home and take rest and repeat the exercise the next day. Trust or faith does not obtain between the teacher and the taught, these days. Students think they are more intelligent because they get all the information from the internet. The information relates not only to their syllabic requirements but also to advanced technologies. This prompts the students to assume that their teachers are fools and that they are more intelligent than their teachers.
But mythology tells us that teacher is the real 'Guru'. Faith is as important as gravity is to the planet. If faith is absent, aberration arises and leads to evil thoughts and behaviour . Faith is the in thing . It bonds people. Teacher is no more a statuete you pay respect to but one who is given nicknames or laughed at. The youth believe they’re smart enough to play their own games. But then teachers are no longer into serious teaching. They have turned sellers who sell knowledge. There is not even a trace of faith between the teacher and the taught. Students don’t respect the teacher and in turn the teacher is not into his job seriously. This is the reality; this is the truth.
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